“The great thing about social movements is everybody gets to be a part of them.” ~Jim Wallis
I have a confession to make: I want to start a happiness movement.
Something deep inside me yearns to reach millions, to extend the message to every corner of the globe, to inspire a radical shift toward happiness.
I ache to draw those stagnated in the grey pools of dissatisfaction into the cool breeze of passion, purpose and joy.
I Want the World to be Bathed in Happiness
I want to wake up the despondent and miserable to the opportunity of happiness, to proclaim the possibility of happiness, to swing open the door to its potential, to shout from the mountain tops that happiness is available to everyone.
I want to generate a growing buzz that spreads across the internet and into the conversations of the humble and powerful alike.
I want that conversation to change the way we culturally think about happiness, the goals we set for how we live in relation to happiness, the seriousness of the topic of happiness, the passion and drive that burns in our hearts for happiness.
I want the world to know the principles upon which it is predicated and rattle the cages of false assumptions.
I want people to know the work of happiness is worth the effort, that it will do more to improve their lives and lift them to new heights than most anything else they could ever work on.
I want to create a movement, not about me, but about you, about happiness, about you taking the message of happiness, the benefits of happiness and the amazingness of happiness out into the larger world.
I want the world, in fact, to be awash in happiness, lubricated at its squeaky points, warmed by its glow, changed by its substance.
I want happiness to be massaged deep into its wounds and loose, flabby skinfolds of neglect.
I want it to fill those lost and weary and self-absorbed souls in search of something they don’t realize they’re searching for.
I want it to save the depressed from their depression and rescue the despondent from their lethargy.
I want to generate excitement about it. Hope that it’s possible. Passion in its pursuit. Openness to its possibility. Hunger for its reality. Energy behind it. Buzz about it. Perseverance in it. Dedication to its cause.
In short, I want to ignite a happiness revolution.
How Happiness Changes the World
Why? Because happy people are healthier, better adjusted, more confident, more productive, friendlier, kinder, and more loving.
They raise better kids, make better parents and spouses, become better friends, are better employers and employees and leaders and neighbors and citizens.
Less crime is committed by happy people. Fewer drugs are taken by happy people. Fewer happy people abuse their children, murder their neighbors, vandalize property, join a gang, riot, rape or rob.
Happy people are quicker to forgive and slower to anger. They hate less and love more. They judge less and serve more. They hurt less and are kinder and more charitable.
Happy parents produce happier children, who produce happier children, who produce happier children, who produce, well, you get the point.
The bottom line is that a happiness revolution is also a responsibility movement, a courage movement, an optimism movement, a compassion and human potential and love and family and emotional health and character movement.
Happy people, simply said, make the world a better place to live.
Everywhere.
In every way.
For everyone.
What Should a Happiness Movement Look like?
But what does such a movement look, smell and taste like? What does it entail? What is done within such a community of movers? What kinds of voices are heard? How much divergence can a movement absorb?
Or how singular should the message be to prevent dilution and undercurrents that miss the point or steer followers in the wrong direction or condemn it to factious self-destruction? Remember, a kingdom with too many kings doesn’t remain a kingdom for very long. So what definition or interpretation of happiness or what parameters of happiness should rule?
I guess we’ll figure all that out as we go.
But Why a Movement?
I’ve decided that only a movement of many voices will ever have the horsepower to make it to the top of the mountain where the message of happiness can be clearly heard and reliably identified.
Lone voices are important voices, but are rarely heard above the din of daily living. Politics. Economics. The daily fare of murder and mayhem on television news. Hot button issues debated by screaming faces on News programs.
These make a solo voice sound like so much fluff in the rough and tumble world of the 6:00 news, a mere whisper among megaphones.
But collective voices tend to be heard. They rise above the din. They echo far more widely and ring in more ears and penetrate more hearts. They excite passion, attract attention and promote participation.
So, Now What?
For now, we’re just looking for recruitment. So join the ranks of the happiness movers! This is the ground floor, my first call to action. You are the grassroots at the first watering.
The numbers will be few at first, but I trust they won’t remain so.
I’ve created a Happiness Movement FB Page that will act as the hub of the movement. Click over and Like the page to add your name to the numbers.
If you’re a blogger, be sure to keep reading. There’s a special invitation to bloggers coming up in a moment that offers you a chance to participate in a unique way (with tangible traffic benefits to boot!).
What kind of action will we take? That’s something we’ll be talking about.
A few initial thoughts include the possibility of spreading a collectively created Happiness Manifesto, promoting national legislation for a Happiness Awareness Day, expanding the scope and depth of our message, holding workshops or seminars and training courses, starting a Happiness Matters campaign and curriculum for schools.
Borderless Possibilities
But seriously, the sky is the limit. There are so many creative and passionate minds out there that can start talking about ways of extending the message and changing the world. This is, in part, a forum for that conversation to take place and build momentum.
We need happiness advocates and happiness curious on-lookers open to becoming passionate advocates as they get inspired by that message.
We need politicians and plumbers, therapists and thespians, cops and carpenters, teachers and technicians, musicians and mothers and fathers and students and everyone interested in living happier lives and sharing their happiness with others.
Of course, if all you want is to be an onlooker, to read and learn on your own, there’s a place for you here too. We are first and foremost a university of happiness, providing information, insight, updates, research, wisdom, challenges, inspiration and community.
First Step
But as I said earlier, the first step is to build a community, recruiting those who are passionate enough about the cause to join The Happiness Movement Facebook page.
If you’re interested or curious or think you might be, just follow the link and Like The Happiness Movement. Invite your friends on over to do the same.
As the numbers grow and interest is sparked and passion deepened, we will start to look at next steps. But don’t be intimidated by the plan. If you never do anything but read and Like, you will be adding needed numbers to the growing movement, lending it strength, impact and credibility.
No matter how active or passive your participation, we want it all the same. The movement depends on each of you to help it grow into something that can legitimately be called a movement.
The Time is Ripe
I was recently interviewed for a documentary on happiness called, Pursuing Happiness. The film-makers are literally pursuing the happiest people in America, looking for what they know and think and do that makes them so darn happy.
Sprinkled throughout the documentary will be interviews (such as mine) with those working in the happiness field.
Check it out here and stay posted for updates on when and where the film will hit the big screen.
The bottom line is that happiness is on the move:
- The UN just this year and for the first time declared an International Day of Happiness.
- Major publications, from Time Magazine to the New York Times are covering the topic.
- Scientific research is proliferating and getting headline coverage.
- Amazon alone has well over 32,000 books listed under that particular subject heading alone.
Now is the time for a movement to take root, to excite interest and spread the message of happiness to more lives than ever before. Interest is peaked. Seeds have been planted. The times call for action, for bold steps that put us out in the open, standing for a way of life that is worthy of the action taken in its behalf.
Special Note to Bloggers
This is an invitation to bloggers to participate uniquely by placing a button linked to The Happiness Movement page in your sidebar and perhaps in specific articles on happiness as you post them to your site.
This will potentially send your readers to the Facebook page and in return, you can add your posts on happiness to the page and enjoy the additional traffic your site gets from readers from other blogs doing the same thing.
If curious: Just click on the sample button to the right. It will take you to an email form. Drop me a line with a link to your blog so I can peruse your work. Assuming there’s a fit with The Happiness Movement, I’ll send you a longer explanation and the button options you can choose from so you can get started without delay.
Afterthoughts
Promoting a national and even world-wide conversation about the principles of happiness, the importance of happiness, the necessity of happiness, the rewards and benefits of happiness, the how-to of happiness will be an ongoing, step-by-step process.
It is a process that has the potential of changing the world one smile, one heart, one breath of inspiration at a time.
Its goal is to provide specific tools and ideas to generate excitement about the conversation.
Its purpose is to then fuel those conversations across countless tables during family meals, out with friends, on dates (why not?), with parents and between parents, among leaders and movers and shakers and everyone else by providing compelling content, advice, tips, techniques, and principles as the subject matter.
Its aim is to change the culture of unhappiness, to act as a signpost redirecting people searching for happiness in all the wrong places.
Its object is nothing less than a revolution in human joy, a movement that will reach the masses and change them where it counts most: In their hearts and thoughts and beliefs and action and smack dab in the middle of their happiness.
Your Turn
So join the groundswell today, right now, by Liking The Happiness Movement FB Page. Click here and head over (or click the banner below), Like it and come back and tell me what you think about the Page and the concept more generally, or any part of it.
I’m accepting constructive advice for improvement too … with, I might add, open and appreciative arms.
Don’t forget to Like and Share this post to help promote the movement and spread the message of happiness!
I’d be very happy to support you in your goal to bathe the world with happiness. I wish people would have the same as you have. Spread the happiness! 🙂
Thanks Sue! Don’t forget to Like the Happiness Movement Page! And get your scrubbing hands ready to help bathe the world in happiness!
Hi Ken,
I’m in! Let’s rock the planet with happiness vibes!
Lori
Lori Gosselin recently posted … Do You Know the Secret?
Awesome, Lori! The world is ready and waiting for a revolution in happiness.
What a great thing, Ken! I love it.
Lisa recently posted … Growing Up
Thanks Lisa! I’m really excited about it. It has the potential to become really big and affect a lot of lives. Fingers crossed!
Ken Wert recently posted … The House-ness of your Happiness (three fundamental characteristics of happiness)
Great idea Ken, I will be sure to join your FB page and spread the word 🙂
I hope so, Neil! Thanks for the support!
Count me in, Ken! Exciting stuff!
Linda recently posted … What If… You Could Stop Your Family From Bullying You?
Thanks Linda! Yeah, I’m excited about its prospects too!
You may or may not know that I’ve been running The Happy Friday Series since Jan. 11, 2013 when it launched. I have never written a post outside the very first one and the last one recapping 25 guest authors.
The topics are fascinating; everyone has a different interpretation. I have my Harvard Business Review cover story on “happiness” to share in a post when I need to write. It’s from 2011 or 2012.
This topic is fascinating; I don’t want to be jaded. I want to really believe there are people who run around giggling all day. I want some of that. Do they work, are they worried about $, do they experience the loss of loved ones, what is it? Did I say FASCINATING?
BEST luck, Ken; very best luck. And, what you’re doing is so important.
Jayme Soulati recently posted … The Happy Friday Series: 24 #RockHot Guest Authors
That’s so awesome, Jayme! I’ll definitely head over in a few to peruse the 25 posts in the series.
I’m a bit taken by the topic myself! Very fascinating! And so inclusive. So much of life either lends itself to happiness, is a detour in the wrong direction away from it or obstructs it more directly. So writing about it is left pretty wide open.
Thanks for the wishes of luck, Jayme. And best wishes to your ongoing project as well!
This was a truly beautiful post! You earned a loyal new reader by the time I got to “I want people to know the work of happiness is worth the effort”. I did my best to teach this to my sons and the lesson took on one and not the other. But there is no greater source of pride than seeing this attitude carried out in your children!
So glad it hit the sweet spot, Kelly! It is a driving force in my life and the work I do here. I’m with you on feeling deep pride at my children picking up on the principles and attitudes of happiness. And I’m thrilled you did your best to teach them. That’s all we can do, after all, right?
Welcome aboard! 🙂
Hi Ken….I am all for spreading as much happiness around the world as we possibly can. Count me and my blog into the process…. ~Kathy
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Awesome, Kathy! Thanks so much! Keep spreading it thick! I’ll be sending you an email soon (I’m test driving it first to make sure all the attachments show up). Talk to you soon!
Kathy, I checked out your blog and can’t find any contact information to send you the explanatory email and button attachments for you to consider. Drop me a line and I can send it in my reply.
Hi Ken….my direct email is under my photo on the front page 🙂 But you can email me at : kathy (at) smartliving365.com
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WOW! Your words are powerful, passionate, awesome! They left me feeling like I’m standing on the threshold of a new world. And I want to enter the door, and embrace all that world stands for.
Thanks Mom! We are standing on that threshold. There’s so much happening in the happiness field. Certainly, there’s a lot of silliness as well, as there is in almost any industry. But the research and interest and the sheer numbers of people throwing their thoughts into the mix are pushing things to some sort of breaking point, where, I hope, the cultural misconceptions of happiness will begin to fade and the importance of happiness will become much more prominent.
And the best news is that the door is already wide open! So come on in, Mom! The water is much better than fine!
PS: Love you!!!
Me too. 🙂
Britt Reints recently posted … What I Learned About Connection at #WDS2013
Awesome, Britt! 🙂
That is a wonderful idea Ken! Do keep us updated on what goes down! 🙂
Dan recently posted … Do You Have A Life Plan?
Thanks Dan! You can count on the updates!
Such a nice movement! Brilliant idea,I think all the people around the world should join! I can smell some hippie spirit here…:)
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I agree, Peter! I just have to figure out how to get them all to jump on board! 🙂
Haha! Hippie spirit, huh? I have to admit that in the late 1970s, I did have a strain of hippiness run through me (even wore bell-bottom jeans in middle school!). Fortunately, I was too young at the time to have followed the Hippie movement into the drug-induced coma many ended up experiencing. Besides, turns out not everything traditional needed throwing out!
Thanks for the support, Peter.
stated that in subjective well-being measures, the primary distinction is between cognitive life evaluations and emotional reports. (Emotional reports can be distinguished as of positive or negative affect. Many but not all commentators regard positive and negative affect as carrying different information, and needing to be separately measured and analyzed). Happiness is used in both life evaluation, as in “How happy are you with your life as a whole?”, and in emotional reports, as in “How happy are you now?,” and people seem able to use happiness as appropriate in these verbal contexts.
Margie O. Miranda recently posted … No last blog posts to return.
Thanks for the comment, Margie! I’m much more interested in, “How happy are you with your life as a whole?” Are you happy now is dependent on circumstance. “As a whole” is dependent on attitude and character and belief systems and thought processes.
I just heard about this happiness item. Pretty nice! http://nyti.ms/1dSfuKG
David J. Singer recently posted … A Very Simple Lesson in Empathy and Gratitude
Very cool, David. Thanks for sharing that link. Happiness is certainly stirring out there!
Great idea for a much-needed movement. Just liked your page on Facebook and shared my website. Cheers, Guy.
Guy Farmer recently posted … The Real You Is Always There
Thanks so much, Guy! It is a much-needed movement, for sure. And whether others join the cause or I join causes already in motion, makes no difference to me so long as happiness is being spread!
Thanks for the support, Guy! It’s very much appreciated.
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Hi Ken,
This is awesome initiative from you. Here does my click on the like button on your Facebook page 🙂
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Hey Naveen! Good to see you here again! Thanks for Liking the page. Every click takes us closer to where we want to be.