“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” ~ John F. Kennedy
Most of us take most things for granted most of the time. But that habitual attitude is not very conducive to either gratitude or happiness.
Happiness is important. It changes us. We become better, kinder, more thoughtful and loving people because of it. And since gratitude is an essential characteristic of happiness, the more grateful we are, the happier we’ll be. The happier we then are, the kinder we’ll be. The kinder we are, the better the world will be, one happier person at a time.
Gratitude, it turns out, is no small issue. It can be life-changing, radically altering the way we see and interpret life. Gratitude is the electricity that ignites happiness. It is the breeze that lifts it. It is the context that allows it.
This post is my attempt at enlarging the list of things we are grateful for, at reducing what we habitually take for granted and thereby providing some lift and electricity to our happiness.
So take a look below at some atypical, unconventional things on my gratitude list. Feel your heart reach out in appreciation for them. Then feel a growing sense of joy replace whatever you were feeling before.
25 Unusual Reasons to be Grateful
Reason #1: Extension cords
Cell phones liberated us from the desktop. Cars liberated us from the neighborhood. The internet liberated us from the library. And extension cords (and cordless devices, for that matter) have liberated us from the electrical outlet. I’m grateful for the liberation.
Reason #2: Pain receptors
I recently came across the story of a 9-month-old baby who was born without the ability to feel pain. She ate off her own fingertips. Pain can be a very good thing. It keeps us alive. It keeps us healthy when we learn to listen to its message. Minimally, it keeps us from nibbling off body parts, bathing in water hot enough to boil potatoes in or chewing up the insides of our own mouths. Pain, it turns out, is ultimately a good thing! I’m thankful for it, even if it takes me a while to cozy up next to the never-invited visitor once it stops by to deliver its message.
Reason #3: Sticky notes
Most of my life can be reduced to a series of sticky notes. I have reminders, phone numbers, directions and ideas sticky noted everywhere (or nearly everywhere). They also make great book marks, not only marking the page, but paragraph too. Einstein was once asked for his phone number. He opened up the phone book and read it off. He claimed he never cluttered his brain with information he could look up. Thank goodness for sticky notes that keep me from unnecessarily cluttering my brain!
Reason #4: Hot water
If you’ve ever gone camping for any extended length of time, you may already have an appreciation for hot water. Cooking gets done faster when you don’t have to heat up a pot of near-frozen water. Toothbrushes get cleaner. Clothes are kept whiter. Dishwashing machines work better. And then there’s showers, baths, Jacuzzis and hot tubs. Hot running water makes life warm. I’m thankful for warm!
Reason #5: Plastic
Just think about it! Water bottles. Fans blowing in the summer months. Computer, TV and stereo casings. Disposable cups, utensils and tablecloths for birthday parties. Tupperware. Shampoo bottles. Shower doors. Sippy cups. Lego building blocks. Shower curtains. Plastic wrap and lunch bags. Toothbrushes and toothpaste tubes. Non-stick frying pan surfaces. Refrigerator linings. Straws. Fishing line. Paper laminates. Tape. Contact lenses. I could go on. I won’t. You get the point. I’m thankful for plastic. I bet you are too.
Reason #6: Magnets
Credit cards use magnetic strips to hold pertinent information. Car doors use magnets. So do stereos, TVs, CD and DVD players. Computer and compact disks wouldn’t work without magnetism. Car motors and high speed trains in Japan. Magnetism makes electric toothbrushes work. Stud finders. Children’s art held to refrigerator doors. Speakers. Headphones. Shower curtain weights. Huge junkyard magnets move scrap cars to huge compacting machines … and make for tense scenes in gangster movies.
Reason #7: Hinges
Privacy, safety, order, cleanliness and uncluttered office and living environments all owe themselves to the invention of the hinge. Car doors. Cabinets and closets. Glass cases. Front and back doors to the house. Bedroom doors. Security gates. Bank and personal safes have doors that keep valuables out of others’ hands. Hinges make them all possible.
Reason #8: Sponges
Baths. Dishes. Walls. Arts and crafts. Cleaning tables and splotching artwork. Applying makeup and removing it. Funny cartoons who befriend starfish, wear square pants and live under the sea. Sponges are wonderful gifts to man’s convenience and I’m simply quite thankful for them!
Reason #9: Grass
Soccer. Baseball. Football. Front lawns. Lawn darts. Backyards. Parks. Playing in the sprinklers. Crochet. Bocce Ball. Golf. Easter egg hunts. Water balloon fights. Beautified neighborhoods. Cool blades of grass between toes. Lying on grass with your son watching clouds roll by. Grass is Mother Nature’s carpet. And I think she has pretty good taste in the color and texture she chose for the job!
Reason #10: Phytoplankton
For one, it’s just a great word to say. Try it, you’ll like it. But two, this single-celled ocean-dwelling plant is responsible for about half the oxygen on planet earth. Phytoplankton is also responsible for life in the ocean, providing oxygen to the gilled class under the sea. It’s therefore the reason we have sushi, sea horses and Little Nemo!
Reason #11: Pacifiers
If you’ve ever had a baby, you know what I mean. If you’ve ever been on a plane or in a car or restaurant or any enclosed place with a baby nearby, you also know what I mean. Not only do parents appreciate pacifiers, but friends and neighbors and congregants and fellow peace-loving passers-by are grateful for the rubber sanity-saving doohickey.
Reason #12: Bowls
Cereal. Soup. Ice cream. Nothing more needs be said. I bow in honor to the bowl.
Reason #13: Second Chances
Imagine if everything you ever did was the final play, no do-overs possible. No U-turns after wrong turns. No cleanups after accidents. No adjustments, fixes or improvements. Imagine if mistakes were permanent and weaknesses forever branded you intractably and irredeemably flawed beyond repair. I’m grateful for about-faces, apologies and course corrections. I’m grateful that do-overs are not only allowed, but encouraged.
Reason #14: Broccoli
This deep green Superfood is responsible for a whole host of cellular benefits, including eyes, heart, bones, digestion, skin and blood. It improves cancer immunity, repairs sun damage, maintains healthy blood sugar levels, helps prevent osteoporosis, heart attacks and strokes. Not bad for a single vegetable. Oh, and it tastes pretty darned good too!
Reason #15: Key chains
Yep, I said key chains. I’m thankful for rings that hold all my keys together. Imagine having to dig around in the bottom of your purse or backpack or drawer for all your keys, each one separately, having to remember what each key is for and whether you’ll need that particular one that day. Bet you never thought about that! How often would you get to work without the key to the office, or get to the gym without the key to the locker, or get back home without the key to the front door?
Reason #16: Liquid hand-soap
Little has made cleaning up before dinner so easy. A little squirt on a dirty hand and in moments the sink is filled with grayish water and hands are sparkling clean in all their disinfected and ready-to-be-used-to-eat-with glory!
Reason #17: Sandwiches
Sandwiches are meals in a blanket! A dinner to go. Nothing more simple and, if using the right ingredients, nothing more healthy than a well-made sandwich. You can pack it full of turkey and spinach, cucumber and tomato, avocado and sprouts of one kind or another. Stuff it all between some good hearty, grainy whole wheat bread and you’ve got a convenient little tummy-satisfying, heart-attack-preventing meal-to-go ready to please!
Reason #18: Glasses
I’ve aged. My eyes don’t focus up close like they used to. I thank Heaven for whoever looked at a piece of glass and decided it could correct for the ravages of age on eyes. Looking into the eyes of my wife. Staring at her beauty. Clearly seeing the face of my son and grandchild and daughter. Reading. Writing. All made possible by this piece of genius-ness hanging off the end of my nose. Thank you!
Reason #19: Modernity
Think about our current state of medical technology, time saving devices, the productivity revolution, internet, transportation, even fashion (imagine living in the 18th Century with big hoop dresses, men’s stockings and powdered wigs!). I love living in the 21st Century. I’m thankful for everyone who added to its convenience, health, liberty and prosperity!
Reason #20: Big cheeks on small faces
Kissable cheeks on little children’s cute cherubic faces put smiles on our faces and smiles deeply imbedded in our hearts. They incite random acts of joy and love. Here, I give you my son’s beautiful cheekiness! Enjoy, free of charge. You’re welcome.
Reason #21: Dr. Seuss
I remember sitting around the fireplace snuggled up next to my Mom as she read Green Eggs and Ham, Cat in the Hat and (my favorite) Fox in Socks. It seems like just yesterday. I remember reading the same books to my daughter some 20 years ago. I still read them from time to time with my son. I suspect they will one day be reading them to their children (or at least I will to my grandchildren).
Reason #22: Calculators
I hate math. And math hates me with something approaching the same level of disgust I hold for it. But we get along okay in our mutual disregard, largely ignoring each others’ very existence. Sometimes, however, I need the thief of self-confidence to make some needed calculations. It’s at those times that I nod in silent reverence and appreciation for that confidence-saving device!
Reason # 23: Gravity
It makes walking and jumping possible (at least the kind of jumping where you come back down between push-offs). It makes playing catch and basketball and even swimming possible as well (otherwise, you just wouldn’t be able to keep all the water in one spot to swim through). Imagine how much you would have to spend on golf balls without gravity. Imagine how messy life would be without it. Going to the restroom would be an altogether different kind of experience.
Reason #24: Dentists
I know. Dentists are not our favorite people. But think about life without them. We hate the thought of sharp instruments poking around in our mouths. But any of you who have ever known someone who doesn’t get checked up regularly knows the benefits of dentistry. A dentist-less life would be one with more rot and decay (and other associated colors and smells). Dentists make smiling more attractive and kissing possible.
You might say that dentists are to population growth what doors are to houses. They are necessary entryways or locked barriers to access.
Reason #25: Socks
They’re warm and fuzzy. They keep shoes from stinking as much as shoes without socks would. They keep feet warm in winter and on cold tiled floors in the morning. They hide ugly feet (I know because mine need hiding!). They act as a layer between foot and shoe, limiting friction (and blisters). Good ones wick moisture from skin. Others add support. Some make fashion statements. Mine don’t. But I’m still grateful for socks.
Afterthoughts
Gratitude is a wonderful trait that keeps on giving. It adds exponentially to our own happiness. It improves others’ lives in large and small ways when we take the time to sincerely thank someone for their kindnesses. It changes the way we see the world and therefore, the way we experience it.
YOUR TURN!
I’m grateful you read this far. Truly I am. I hope gratitude is becoming a growing part of your life. I would love to hear how it has or what challenges lie in your way in the comments below. Also, let us know what uncommon things you would add to a gratitude list?
More than anything gratitude keeps me humble! It helps me understand that most of my blessings come from sources and forces that I am not in control of. As for the unusual things that I am grateful for….
1. A light fixture in the center of the room. Right now in my apartment we don’t have one, and it is so hard to keep the room lit well! It always feels dark.
2. Instant Replay. There are so many sports moments that have been corrected thanks to this. I am so grateful for it.
3. Apple. No not the fruit, but the company that made my laptop. They make it so easy for me to use!
I am sure there are more but those are the first three that come to mind.
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What a great point about the relationship between gratitude and humility, Michael. So very true!
It’s funny how we often realize how useful something is only when we no longer have it! Sometimes it takes loss to better appreciate our blessings. I came to better appreciate my laptop after it stopped working for a week or more back some time ago.
Just finished listening to the biography of Steve Jobs on CD and definitely have a better appreciation for what Apple has accomplished.
Thanks for sharing these, Michael.
My favorite from your list – Second chances.
To add to the list – Thunderstorms. To feel alive with fear with each lightening strike. To be grateful after the storm passes.
Dan @ ZenPresence
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Ah yes, second chances. That’s my favorite one too, Dan. I shudder to think of the consequences without that gift — given how long it sometimes takes me to learn my lesson! Hard headed, to be sure!
I live in Southern California, so my thunderstorms are not the same beast as many others’, so with that caveat stated, I love thunderstorms too. For me, there’s really no fear of them. Ours are more noisy than dangerous. But the awesome power they display still leaves me in awe.
What a great list! I laughed and nodded in recognition, especially as my grandson toddled into the room as I was reading…with a pacifier in his mouth! I’m going to go to my gratitude list right now and add a few!
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Just finished you book, Galen! I know, took me so long! It really is a quick (and wonderful!) read, just so much going on in my life these days. So I just started working on a post. Hopefully it will be done in short order!
Haha! I’ve been spending time with my brand spanking new granddaughter and have been newly reminded of the wonders of that little device! My son never really took to the pacifier, but my daughter usually went to sleep holding three or four in her little hand and one in her mouth.
I’m thankful for memories too!
Thanks, Ken, for the kind words about my book. I look forward to your review!
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Another great post Ken.
Gratitude is one of the things I am most grateful for. Many years ago I was seldom if ever grateful and my life showed it. Once I began keeping a gratitude list my life got SO much better. Thanksgiving is now my favorite holiday – a whole day to focus on being grateful!!!
Susan
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Thanks so much, Susan!
I love that! Grateful for gratitude! It really is amazing how revolutionary gratitude can be, isn’t it! It can completely change the way we see the world, our own lives, life, others, everything!
So glad you made it over the ungrateful hump, Susan! What made you start keeping a gratitude list? Just curious.
Fantastic post. Gravity…that one made me laugh. Since I read your previous post I have been using my time alone in the car to make my gratitude list. I tend to be a bit too focused on the negative side of things, so this is a great exercise to start turning that around.
I’m grateful for:
My kids having each other: yes, they fuss, yes the fight, but what better way than to learn how best to interact with people. And when they get along, which is most of the time, they learn how important they are to each other.
Crayons: who doesn’t still love that brand new box of crayons with pointy tips? I think coloring is probably better than therapy. Plus that texture the create when you press them down hard is so fantastic!
Rubber Bands: They hold things together, they can pull your hair back, they can make music, really what a great invention.
Batteries: just imagine life without them.
Tin Foil: You can use it as a container to cook your food on a fire, it keeps things fresh, you can use it as a palette to paint, and even make a ball or animals out of it. Very versatile stuff!
Hi Kimberly!
I had fun putting the post together. Gravity is like kite string. It holds us back, but in the holding , we’re allowed to do things we couldn’t without it.
I two kids (one married and one 6 years old — I know!) And I’m with you. There little in life I’m more grateful for than them. There are always those moments, but can’t imagine life without them.
I love that you mention even the feel of pressing a crayon hard into the paper. I never really thought about the tactile element to drawing with crayons, but you’re right!
And rubber bands! Wish I would have thought of that one! My son and I get into some pretty funny rubberband fights, shooting them at each other and the like.
Love you unusual things you’re grateful for, Kimberly! Thanks for adding them to the list!
Oh Ken,
You do come up with some ‘unusual’ things however I must say they are very practical. Thankyou. I’m a bit of a ‘sticky note’ type of guy…they have served me well.
Be good to yourself
David
…and enjoy your Thanksgiving over there
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Hey David,
Haha! Yes, I do come up with unusual things, really as a reminder (to myself mostly) that there is so much to be grateful for, so much we usually take for granted and never really “see”, never even think to consider from the perspective of gratitude. That’s how it often is for me, anyway.
Thanks for the well wishes, David. You’re a good man.
26. You. (a.k.a. friends) Knowing you has made a wonderful difference in my life.
27. Internet – enough said?
28. Water – in our body, around us, and all its uses (thirst quencher, life giver, transportation facilitator, plant grower plus a never-ending list)
29.Diapers – Yes. For kids and for adults.
30. Voice – Sounds, includes music and noise
31. Senses – ability to see, hear, taste, feel, love
32. Hugs – does more than words could ever convey
33. Prayer – soothes more than medication ever can
34. My kitchen appliances, but no.1 has to go to my pressure cooker. Cooking is a breeze with it.
35. Moisturizer – I wouldn’t be writing this if I didn’t live with it
36. Sunshine – brightens up the day in an inexplicable way, especially when one’s feeling a bit low
37. Fire – in relation to cooking
38. The power of choice – oh yes
39. Paper – I am not that liberated yet. I still use a notebook and pencil
40. Spectacles – refer no.35
I love your your entire list but especially no.20 which instantly made me long to cuddle a baby!
I maintain a gratitude journal and always get a good laugh thinking about how people would react if I ever published it.
Hugs! Love, Vidya
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Love your additions to the list, Vidya! Especially #26! 😉
I laughed out loud when I read #29. Then paused and realized I too will one day be thankful for the latter! 🙁
I’m a pen and paper type of guy myself. All my edit work is done with a printed post and pen in hand. I keep a pad of paper for capturing ideas too. I keep it in the car, but don’t worry, I only jot the ideas down at stop lights.
Vidya, you have to go back to my post to see the photo of my little boy. I suggested you’d see the photo, then forgot to upload it tot he post. it’s there now, so go take a look at what I was talking about with #20. That particular photo is a few years ago, but he still has those adorably kissable cheeks.
Knowing you, I bet you gratitude journal is a long and rapidly growing list!
Hugs and love back at you, Vidya!
🙂 Yes. Yes. Yes. Actually, I thought of him when I read no.20, because I remembered him from one of your recent posts. Nothing, but absolutely nothing is a bigger mood-upper than cuddling a child. I am blessed with a very affectionate child who is still demonstrative. And oh, he will be 15 this month, but all I have to do is bring out my trunk of photo albums (and hear the guys groaning) – if I look like a shutterbug now, I was a far bigger one back then. Our neighbors complained that they never heard this chap crying. 🙂 Enough said? And those cheeks. Nirvana-type happiness.
Hugs! Enjoy him as much as you can. They grow up way too soon!
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We don’t celebrate Thanksgiving here, but I can still be thankful for a host of things this week. As a person who suffers from chronic pain, I can’t say I’m thankful for it, but as your example demonstrates, the absence of pain can be pretty dangerous.
I’m thankful for central heating. I get very cold, and living in England, I’d never survive without it.
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Hi Anne,
Chronic pain is a tough one. In the original draft, I had a caveat for those suffering from chronic pain, but removed in one of the edits when the post was just getting way too long and I was in a cutting mood. But I certainly understand not being terribly thankful for pain in such circumstances. Hope it’s not unbearable.
Central heating is good. I live in Southern California, so I’m actually even more thankful for central cooling!
Have you ever thought about moving to a warmer climate? I’ve heard warmer climates are good for pain issues.
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its always a great thing to count our blessings
it can add a lot of positivity to our mood and help us forget about the negativity we face, thanks ken
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I was doing a google search on the relationship between gratitude and “living in the moment” and I ran into this post. In the past year or so, the theme of my life has become gratitude. I never thought that thankfulness was something I needed to learn how to do but, as it turns out learning to have a greatful heart has been the key to freeing my mind from some very dark places. I never realized how impossible it truley is to be free to “live in the moment” if your mind is constantly bound to your worries over the future, lost dreams, and past hurts. Nor did I even conceive that this was my life that was slowly but surely killing me softly.
With that being said I am ever so grateful for our human ability to choose thankfulness! I could go on and on but I think I will end there.
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Some truly great posts on this website, thank you for contribution. “There is one universal gesture that has one universal message–a smile” by Valerie Sokolosky….
What a great post! Thanks for all of the ideas and inspiration. You are a great reminder that your job does not define you, your passion does! Have an extraordinary 2012!
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Thanks for stopping by, Tamal.
There are so many people out there walking through life half-asleep. There is no passion in their lives. Sure, they love their kids and like working for whatever company they work for and look forward to weekends off. But nothing truly drives them. There’s nothing that consumes them. Nothing that gets them excited about.
And that’s too bad. Life can change in some fundamental ways if only more people added more passion to their lives.
Hope your 2012 is extraordinary too, Tamal!